Every person has their own distinct patterns especially when it comes to dating. People have their own habits according to which they look for people who can mesh together with them well.
However, while dating someone, we can become a bit unpredictable as everyone has a different personality and a different dating personality as well.
This is not a bad thing as it’s a natural phenomenon that a dating personality of a person can change even with the course of life. Huma nature is a complicated thing. You can’t fully understand a person’s nature, ever. You may recognize their characteristics more than you can recognize of your own but one thing that will always stand out will be the nature of a person.
Our nature can change. Sometimes we opt the good and sometimes we risk things a little. This is exactly how relationships work too. There is no handbook for you to take guide from. Once you are in it, you are on your own. Only personal experiences, understanding, compromising from both sides and seeing the good in every situation can help your relationship last longer.
In order to understand each other you first have to figure out yourself. You have to understand your own personality and then the other person’s personality as well.
What Can Seem Difficult?
Dealing with people in relationships can turn out a bit unexpected. Expectations and communications play a vital role and can regulate the state of a relationship. What you expect from yourself or the other person and how you communicate these expectations, feelings and opinions in a relationship can be something hard to do. How these expectations and conveying of these expectations can influence the personalities is also something that occurs.
People who tend to communicate well with these expectations and manage and understand feelings from both sides can survive well in a relationship. Even odd pairings sometimes do great while the other times they fail miserably.
It’s All About Understanding
It is not just about your zodiacs and compatibility but it is about understanding the other person’s perspective and respecting their feelings. Tons of studies and statistics are done on this matter and have proved that the people who stay the happiest in a relationship are those who have the greatest level of inner peace and an optimistic outlook towards life.
One thing that is needed to be put in the limelight is that no emotional issues and disputes are discussed here. It is only about the relationship issues which is one of the major part of the relationship dynamics.
It is quite simple to say that people who are patient, low-key dramatic and are involved intimately with their partner are able to break all rigid barriers within their relationship. This makes it easier to communicate whether you are talking about relationship with your partner, family, friends or even colleagues.
You might have heard the famous proverb, “birds of a feather flock together”. The meaning to this is pretty plain to see. We all are attracted towards people who have similar tastes, similar focus and goals in lives. Couples who have similar dominant personality functions are the ones who can stay the happiest and longest in relationships.